I have a keychain that reads "A woman who wants to be equal to a man lacks ambition." When I saw it, I thought it was great and had to get it! (It wasn't until several years later that I realised what it was supposed to be saying.) I got it because it so well put into words what I'd been thinking. The highest ambition I - as a woman - can have, is to be the very best woman I can be. Anything else is less of an ambition. God made me to be a woman, not a man, so being a man would not be the best I could be. Therefore, to desire that would be to lack ambition.
It still bothers me to hear women talk about how they can be just as good a man as the men are. It's sad to me, because I know that as long as that is their goal, they will never reach their full potential. It's so wonderful to follow the way God designed things! It just makes life easier and so much better!